It is your mid-life crisis, not love
Today I had an amazing conversation with a very good friend of mine. He happens to be 15 years older than me, a divorcee and he has two kids. He asked me to hook him up with one of my friends or somebody that I know. My response to him was “even if I was single, I wouldn’t date you.” He said I was being very rude and that all he is looking for is love. Love? Please! I disagree. But Wait! I am not against love. Let me explain... I find it rather selfish for a man with so much baggage to be asking me or my friends out. What exactly will I be dealing with, with a man with two kids, an ex-wife who hates his guts and his big family? Well, let me tell you. If I choose to date this man at my age, 25, I will have to deal with his two kids who will hate me, not because I am 25 but because their mother told them to. Number two, I will have to deal with snappy comments and bitchy remarks from the ex-wife who thinks I am the reason he is not paying maintenance. And las...
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