The love I know

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As we grow up, we learn that even the one person who wasn't suppose to ever let you down... Probably will.
You will have your heartbroken probably more than once and its harder every time...But you will break hearts too, so remember how it felt when yours was broken.

 You'll fight with your best friend.
You will blame a new love for things an old one did.
You'll cry because time is passing too fast. And you will eventually lose someone you love. So, take too many pictures, laugh too much and love like you've never been hurt. Because every 60 seconds you spend upset is a minute of happiness you'll never get back.

 Loving a man is giving him the power to destroy you... But trusting him not to.
Real love stories never have happy endings.
Because....
Real love stories never end.
You know you in love when the hardest thing to say is goodbye...
Never make somebody your everything
Because...
When they are gone, you got nothing...

 Having the man you consider the love of your life break up with you and then say we can still be friends is like...
Your dog dying and your mum saying you can still keep it.
And if you can't get someone out of your head... Well, maybe they are suppose to be there.

 When you really love somebody, you are willing to let them go and when they come back then that is true love
Because...
True love is always worth the wait.

 Never give up on the things that make you smile.
Never break the heart that loves you...
So Remember...
You aren't going to be his first, his last or his only...
He loved before...
He will again.
But if he loves you now, what else matters?
He is not perfect and you aren't either. And the two of you will never be perfect. But if he can make you laugh at least once, and causes you to think twice and he admits to being human and making mistakes...
Hold on to him and give him the most you can
He's not going to quote poetry...
He's not going to be thinking about you every moment.
But he will give you a part of him that he knows you can break...
His HEART.
Don't hurt him...
Don't change him...
Don't expect more than he can give...

 Try not to over analyse...Smile when he makes you happy. Yell when he makes you mad and miss him when he's not there.

 The gaps in between your fingers are made for filling... So let him.
And if you fight... Kiss and make up and you'll be fine.

 This is the love I know...

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